Shadow (orientation)

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Shadow
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Orientation: Any
Prefix: Shadow-


Shadow is an orientation for transgender individuals who experience gender in a way such that one feels disconnection or dysphoria from an existing orientation label, like a shadow. Despite this, one feels a connection to a certain orientation label. The shadow- label represents this simultaneous connection and disconnection.

Shadow can be used as either a prefix or as an orientation itself.

History

Shadow- was coined by Tumblr user ashix0trender0juice on July 19th, 2020.[1]

Orientations

Label Prefix/Suffix Description(s) Flag Creator(s)
shadowachilligirl achilligirl No exact definition was provided for shadowachilligirl. The definition must be inferred from other shadow- labels.[2] Tumblr user eldorr
shadowenbian enbian Being multigender or genderfluid but never NBLNB, yet feeling like one’s attraction to non-binary individuals is gai.[3]

Being m-spec and not NBLNB, yet feeling a connection to the label.[3]

Being too dysphoric about being called or thought of as non-binary or enby, yet being either WLNB, MLNB, etc. with a connection to the enbian label.[3]

Shadowenbian.jpg Tumblr user ashix0trender0juice
shadowgai gai Shadowgai, also called shadowunstrayt, is an orientation where one experiences gay attraction in a uniquely non-binary way. However, while one technically is non-binary, one does not identify as non-binary for any reason.[4] Shadowgai.jpg Tumblr user selves-indulgent-coining
shadowgaistrayt gaistrayt Shadowgaistrayt is an orientation where one experiences both gay and straight attraction in a uniquely non-binary way. This can be simultaneous or not. However, while one technically is non-binary, one does not identify as non-binary for any reason.[4] Shadowgaistrayt.jpg Tumblr user selves-indulgent-coining
shadowgay gay The umbrella term for shadowlesbian, shadowvincian, and shadowenbian. This term includes trans/nonbinary individiuals who feel semi-connection to a certain label despite dysphoria or not being the gender the label usually pertains to.[5] Shadowgay.png Tumblr user ashix0trender0juice
shadowlesbian lesbian Being multigender or genderfluid but never WLW, yet feeling like your attraction to women is gai. [6]

Being m-spec and not WLW, yet feeling a connection to the label. [6]

Being too dysphoric about being called or thought of as a woman or girl, yet being either NBLW, MLW, or XLW with a connection to the lesbian label.[6]

Shadowlesbian.png Tumblr user ashix0trender0juice
shadowlesboy lesboy a shadowlesbian boy/guy/man[7]

a boy/guy/man who feels a semi-connection to the lesbian label, whose identification with the term 'lesbian' is affected by another part of their identity (gender, orientation, etc.), or who simply feels as though they both are and are not a lesbian[7]

Tumblr user neopronouns
shadowlunian lunian Having one's experience as a lunian underneath the shadow term or definition. Not fully or completely 100% IDing as a lunian. Basically being a shadow mspec lesbian.[8] Tumblr user eldorr
shadowsaphboy saphboy No exact definition was provided for shadowsaphboy. The definition must be inferred from other shadow- labels.[2] Tumblr user eldorr
shadowsgait sgait Shadowsgait is an orientation where one simultaneously experiences both gay and straight attraction in a uniquely non-binary way. However, while one technically is non-binary, one does not identify as non-binary for any reason.[4] Shadowsgait.jpg Tumblr user selves-indulgent-coining
shadowsolian solian Having one's experience as a solian underneath the shadow term or definition. Not fully or completely 100% IDing as a solian. Basically being a shadow mspec veldian.[8] Tumblr user eldorr
shadowstellian stellian Having one's experience as a stellian underneath the shadow term or definition. Not fully or completely 100% IDing as a stellian. Basically being a shadow mspec gay.[8] Tumblr user eldorr
shadowstraight straight Being multigender or genderfluid but never WLM, yet feeling like your attraction to men is strayt. Likewise, being multigender or genderfluid but never MLW, yet feeling like your attraction to women is strayt.[9]

Being m-spec and not WLM or MLW, yet feeling a connection to the label.[9]

3. Being too dysphoric about called or thought of as a man or boy, yet being either NBLW, MLW or XLW with a connection to the straight label. Likewise, being too dysphoric about being called or thought of woman or girl, yet being either NBLM, WLM or XLM with a connection to the straight label.[9]

Shadowstraight.jpg Tumblr user ashix0trender0juice
shadowstrayt strayt Shadowstrayt, also called shadowgain’t, is an orientation where one experiences straight attraction in a uniquely non-binary way. However, while one technically is non-binary, one does not identify as non-binary for any reason.[4] Shadowstrayt.jpg Tumblr user selves-indulgent-coining
shadowveldigirl / shadowturigirl veldigirl / turigirl a shadowveldian/shadowturian girl/gal/woman[7]

a girl/gal/woman who feels a semi-connection to the veldian/turian/gay man label, whose identification with the term 'veldian/turian/gay man' is affected by another part of their identity (gender, orientation, etc.), or who simply feels as though they both are and are not a veldian/turian/gay man[7]

Tumblr user neopronouns
shadowvincian vincian Being multigender or genderfluid but never MLM, yet feeling like one’s attraction to men is gai.[10]

Being m-spec and not MLM, yet feeling a connection to the label.[10]

Being too dysphoric about being called or thought of as a man or boy, yet being either NBLM, WLM or XLM with a connection to the vincian label.[10]

Shadowvincian.jpg Tumblr user ashix0trender0juice

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