Sex Stances
Sex Stances are terms that describe an individual's feelings towards sexual interaction. This includes feeling towards sex, towards other sexual activities, or sexual interaction as a concept.
These terms are commonly used by individuals on the asexual spectrum, but are not exclusive to the community.
History
These terms have existed within the asexual community for many years with no clear first coining. The terms were re-coined for the purpose of providing a concrete source by AnonymousHermitCrab on the r/asexuality subreddit on April 27, 2022.[1]
Related Terms
| Label | Relationship | Description | Difference |
|---|---|---|---|
| Platonic Stances | Counterpart | Terms that describe an individual’s feelings towards platonic interaction. | Friendship stances are about platonic interaction. |
| Pronoun Stances | Counterpart | Terms that describe an individual’s feelings towards pronouns. | Pronoun stances are about pronouns. |
| Romance Stances | Counterpart | Terms that describe an individual’s feelings towards romantic interaction. | Romance stances are about romantic interaction. |
| Sensual Stances | Counterpart | Terms that describe an individual’s feelings towards sensual interaction. | Touch stances are about sensual interaction. |
Subterms
| Label | Prefix / Suffix | Flag | Description | Creator(s) |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Sex-Ambivalent[2] | Ambivalent |  [3]
|
One who has mixed or complicated feelings towards sexual interaction. | AnonymousHermitCrab, beyond-mogai-pride-flags |
| Sex-Averse[4] | Averse |  [5]
|
One who is okay with sexual interaction conceptually but uncomfortable with being involved. | AnonymousHermitCrab, Cilantrouble |
| Sex-Desired[6] | Desired |  [6]
|
One who actively desires sexual interaction. | chaoscoining |
| Sex-Drained[6] | Drained |  [6]†
|
The opposite of piqued. One who is repulsed by sexual interaction due to trauma or exhaustion. | AnonymousHermitCrab, chaoscoining |
| Sex-Favorable[7] | Favorable |  [8]
|
One who is favorable towards or enjoys sexual interaction. | AnonymousHermitCrab, beyond-mogai-pride-flags |
| Sex-Indifferent[9] | Indifferent |  [10]
|
One who has no strong feelings regarding sexual interaction. | AnonymousHermitCrab, beyond-mogai-pride-flags |
| Sex-Oscillating[11] | Oscillating |  citation needed
|
One whose feelings towards sexual interaction changes or fluctuates over time. | AnonymousHermitCrab |
| Sex-Piqued[6] | Piqued |  [6]†
|
The opposite of drained. One with a leaning favorability due to trauma recovery, mania, etc. | chaoscoining |
| Sex-Repulsed[12] | Repulsed |  [13]
|
One who is repulsed by sexual interaction. | AnonymousHermitCrab, beyond-mogai-pride-flags |
†These flags are taken from source as is, despite the symbolism appearing incorrect. It is unclear whether the flag designations are a mistake or purposeful.
Flags & Symbols
The original sex-averse flag was the same as the sex-repulsed flag.[14]
Two alternate flags were created on March 19, 2021 by FANDOM user Cilantrouble.[15] One features a single tilde, showing similarity to sex-ambivalent. It can also be interpreted as a mix of the repulsion and ambivalent flags. The other features a circled dash, a special defined operation similar to subtraction representing the similarity to sex-repulsion. It can also be interpreted as being mixed of the repulsion and indifferent flags.
An additional set of alternative flags was created on February 9, 2023 by Tumblr user chaoscoining.[6] This included a flag for sex-drained featuring two carats pointing up, one above the other, as its symbol. It also included a flag for sex-piqued with the same symbol upside down.
Sex-Averse (Cilantrouble)
Sex-Favorable (chaoscoining)
Sex-Desired (chaoscoining)
Sex-Repulsed (chaoscoining)
Sex-Averse (chaoscoining)
Sex-Oscillating (chaoscoining)
Sex-Ambivalent (chaoscoining)
Sex-Indifferent (chaoscoining)
Resources
- ↑ AnonymousHermitCrab. “Coining/Recoining Interaction Stance Terms.” Reddit, 27 Apr. 2022, www.reddit.com/r/asexuality/comments/ucy0kl/coiningrecoining_interaction_stance_terms/. Accessed 19 May 2023.
- ↑ AnonymousHermitCrab. “Coining/Recoining Interaction Stance Terms.” Reddit, 27 Apr. 2022, www.reddit.com/r/asexuality/comments/ucy0kl/coiningrecoining_interaction_stance_terms/. Accessed 19 May 2023.
- ↑ beyond-mogai-pride-flags. "Sex and Romance Ambivalent Pride Flags". Tumblr, 15 Jan, 2018, https://beyond-mogai-pride-flags.tumblr.com/post/169725849730/sex-and-romance-ambivalent-pride-flags.
- ↑ AnonymousHermitCrab. “Coining/Recoining Interaction Stance Terms.” Reddit, 27 Apr. 2022, www.reddit.com/r/asexuality/comments/ucy0kl/coiningrecoining_interaction_stance_terms/. Accessed 19 May 2023.
- ↑ "Romance-Averse." MOGAI Wiki, . 13 Nov 2021, 04:32 UTC. 13 Jul 2023, 07:28 https://mogai.miraheze.org/w/index.php?title=Romance-Averse&oldid=33691.
- ↑ 6.0 6.1 6.2 6.3 6.4 6.5 6.6 chaoscoining. "Sex Stances Expansion & Design Edits". Tumblr, 10 Feb, 2023, https://www.tumblr.com/chaoscoining/708824153616187392/sex-stances-design-edits.
- ↑ AnonymousHermitCrab. “Coining/Recoining Interaction Stance Terms.” Reddit, 27 Apr. 2022, www.reddit.com/r/asexuality/comments/ucy0kl/coiningrecoining_interaction_stance_terms/. Accessed 19 May 2023.
- ↑ beyond-mogai-pride-flags. "Sex and Romance Positive/Favorable Pride Flags". Tumblr, 15 Jan, 2018, https://beyond-mogai-pride-flags.tumblr.com/post/169725540390/sex-and-romance-positivefavorable-pride-flags.
- ↑ AnonymousHermitCrab. “Coining/Recoining Interaction Stance Terms.” Reddit, 27 Apr. 2022, www.reddit.com/r/asexuality/comments/ucy0kl/coiningrecoining_interaction_stance_terms/. Accessed 19 May 2023.
- ↑ beyond-mogai-pride-flags. "Sex and Romance Neutral/Indifferent Pride Flags". Tumblr, 15 Jan, 2018, https://beyond-mogai-pride-flags.tumblr.com/post/169725763890/sex-and-romance-neutralindifferent-pride-flags.
- ↑ AnonymousHermitCrab. “Coining/Recoining Interaction Stance Terms.” Reddit, 27 Apr. 2022, www.reddit.com/r/asexuality/comments/ucy0kl/coiningrecoining_interaction_stance_terms/. Accessed 19 May 2023.
- ↑ AnonymousHermitCrab. “Coining/Recoining Interaction Stance Terms.” Reddit, 27 Apr. 2022, www.reddit.com/r/asexuality/comments/ucy0kl/coiningrecoining_interaction_stance_terms/. Accessed 19 May 2023.
- ↑ beyond-mogai-pride-flags. "Sex and Romance Negative/Repulsed/Averse Pride Flags". Tumblr, 15 Jan, 2018, https://beyond-mogai-pride-flags.tumblr.com/post/169725646550/sex-and-romance-negativerepulsedaverse-pride.
- ↑ beyond-mogai-pride-flags. “Sex and Romance Negative/Repulsed/Averse Pride Flags.” Tumblr, 15 Jan. 2018, beyond-mogai-pride-flags.tumblr.com/post/169725646550/sex-and-romance-negativerepulsedaverse-pride. Accessed 7 June 2023.
- ↑ “Sex-Averse.” LGBTQIA+ Wiki, 1 Aug. 2022, www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Sex-Averse. Accessed 7 June 2023.
